15 Quotes that build self confidence

15 Quotes that build self confidence

A quote let’s you look through the eyes of another person and allows you to see what they might have learned in a lifetime, almost instantly. Personally, I find them easy going, so relatable and they always set me in the right mood. Below, are 15 quotes that build self confidence.

Sheri L. Dew

Noble and great. Courageous and determined. Faithful and fearless. That is who you are and who you have always been. And understanding it can change your life because this knowledge carries a confidence that cannot be duplicated any other way.

Theodore Roosevelt

Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.

Marie Curie

Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained.

Allen Cohen

To love yourself right now, just as you are, is to give yourself heaven. Don’t wait until you die. If you wait, you die now. If you love, you live now. 

Oprah

Think like a queen. A queen if not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness. 

Marianne Williamson

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Zig Ziglar

You are the only person on earth who can use your ability. 

Mark Victor Hansen

Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful. 

Dalai Lama

With the realization of one’s own potential and self-confidence in one’s ability, one can build a better world. 

Jo Blackwell-Preston

Don’t you dare, for one more second, surround yourself with people who are not aware of the greatness that you are. 

Ralph Waldo Emerson

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.

Wendy Wasserstein

Don’t live down to expectations. Go out there and do something remarkable. 

David Storey

Self confidence is the memory of success

Eleanor Roosevelt

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Louisa May Alcott

“I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship.” 

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15 Empowering Bible verses for women

15 Empowering Bible verses for women

We all have those moments in our lifes when we feel like the odds are against us. With the so much negativity around us, our minds start playing tricks on us. We begin to doubt our competence, beauty, and worth! In such moments, hope becomes a very strange word. However, there are always Bible verses that are strategic and specific for what ever situation you may be going through. Below are 15 Empowering Bible verses for women. Hope it encourages and motivates you especially when you need it the most.

1) Proverbs 31:25 ( NLT)

“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.”

2) Psalms 46:5 ( NIV )

“God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.”


‭‭3) Luke 1:45 ( NIV)

“Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!””


‭‭4) Proverbs 31:17 ( NLT )

“She is energetic and strong, a hard worker.”


‭‭5) Psalms 28:7 ( NIV)

“The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and he helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him.”

6) Proverbs 11:16 ( MSG)

“A woman of gentle grace gets respect, but men of rough violence grab for loot”

7) Joshua 1:9

“ Be strong and courageous”

8) Proverbs 31:30 ( NIV )

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”


‭‭9) 1 Corinthians 15:10

“ But by the grace of God, I am what I am…”

10) Proverbs 31:26 (NLT)

“When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness”

11) Psalms 139:14 (AMP)

“I will give thanks and praise to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well.”


‭‭12) Exodus 14:14 (NLT)

“The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm.””


‭‭13) Songs of songs 4:7 (GNB)

“How beautiful you are, my love; how perfect you are!”

14) Colossians 2:10 ( AMP)

“ And in Him you have been made complete …”

15) 1 Peter 3:3-4 (NLT)

“Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes.

“You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God.”
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My experience at beauty salons

My experience at beauty salons

Generally, time spent at the beauty salon is considered as ladies time somehow. If you often visit the beauty salon either to do your hair, makeup, manicure, pedicure, facials etc you would know that every discussion mostly revolves around beauty, men, money and fashion.

Recently, I visited a salon to do my hair and one of the hairdressers (a beautiful dark lady) there looked at me and said, “chai, black is fine.” “I want na dis kind fineee black” This prompted the lady whose hair she was doing to narrate a story of a guy who was so dark that some people thought he was wearing black socks. So, one of them decided to touch his leg, to confirm whether their thoughts were right or wrong. Of course, they were wrong. You can imagine how the dark guy must have felt.

Well I’ve been in his shoes. So many times people have touched my hands or face to see if my dark complexion will fade away. Like seriously, what nerve!!!! I was really impressed with the hairdresser, even after hearing the story, she still went on to say how much she loved that kind of black. Then she said, “ natural fair skin too is nice because we all are Africans. The only problem is when you see a light skinned girl, you would never know if it’s actually natural or bleached. But when you see a dark girl from afar, you’re hundred percent sure that it’s natural.

I really feel encouraged seeing other dark girls love their skin as much as I do

Then there’s this thing about colors. What color will fit a dark girl? Some say bright colors, what do you think ?

Speaking of beauty salons, what are your plans for your hair this festive season? If like me, you want something natural or braids, be sure to check out my post on braiding styles

AMAZING SONGS THAT CELEBRATE MELANIN (2)

AMAZING SONGS THAT CELEBRATE MELANIN (2)

Nowadays, black women are beginning to own their melanin showing that their skin really is beautiful too. With a lot of modifications that are being made to suit the dark skin such as makeup products and body lotions, the music industry isn’t left behind. Thanks to a few artist, these are amazing songs that celebrate melanin to add to your play list. I hope these amazing songs inspire, motivate and activate you to celebrate melanin more. May these songs remind you just how beautiful melanin is and also, may it reveal the beauty lying within you.

1) Black Is beautiful by Flavour

I can see her from afar,
She just dey shine like a morning light,
I can see very clear
She just dey shine in a broad day light (hey),
And she was walking
And i was watching
Every step and the move she was making.
She is adoring i am admiring her hips

Beauty is a natural thing,
Original thing and a mysterious thing hey,
Rise up ma voice and sing i thank the lord for a beauty queen.
Cos your black is beautiful
Beauty from my own,
Baby your black is beautiful (baby moo)
Beauty in disguise
And your black is beautiful (ahhhhh)
Black is beautiful hey,
And your black is natural, (ahhhhhahh) black is original
Oo oo ohoo
Oo oo ohoo
Oo oo ohoo
yoo yoo yoyo, mama moo

Cha cha chei,
She is black she is proud and she knows it,
She is cool and i everybody likes it,
She is bold and she very very humble,
She is strong and can never never fumble,
She is courageous (ahh) azagitarious the kind of woman I can take for serious,

Beauty is a natural thing,
Original thing and a mysterious thing hey,
Rise up my voice and sing i thank the lord for a beauty queen,
Cos your black is beautiful (beauty for my own)
Baby your black is beautiful baby moo,
Beauty in disguise hey,
and your

And your black is Africa,
Your black is Jamaica,
And your black is Arabia,
Your black is Jamaica,
And your black is Nigeria,
Your black is beautiful oooo
dudu tu tuuu duduuuu,
huu huu
selooom
your black is beautiful.

2) Black woman by Danielle Brooks

You look at me like I’m unfamiliar
Like I’m brand new
Like you never knew that you liked them thick
I’ve been carrying this weight
In a world beneath these braids
And I’m confused
Would you take the pain that came
With all the parts you wanna claim for you

[Pre-Chorus]
You want my thighs
You want my stride
But not this melanin
You want my hair
But you don’t care
For this complexion

[Chorus]
I’m a black woman
I’m a black woman
Cornbread fed
Sweat tea sippin’
Nubian Queen with the skin that glistens
I’m a black woman

[Verse 2]
Sixteen sittin’ on the cold floor
In the corner after school
Recovering from your cover up
When you told me
I wasn’t right for you
It wasn’t hard to believe
‘cus when I watch TV
I would never see
A leading lady look like me
Familiar package with less pigment
I ain’t ignorant, it’s just reality

[Pre-Chorus]
You want my thighs
You want my stride
But not this melanin
You want my hair
But you don’t care
For this complexion

[Chorus]
I’m a black woman
I’m a black woman
Cornbread fed
Sweet tea sippin’
Nubian Queen with the skin that glistens
I’m a black woman

[Bridge]
The world tells me there is space for me
If I cinch it up
And I soak it in
The world tells me it’ll all be mine
With some lashes on
And some lighter eyes
The world tells me it’ll work for me
If I let ’em do a little surgery
The world tells me it’ll change for me
With some longer nails
And some lightening cream

[Outro]
But I’m a black woman
(Lose myself to prove myself)
I’m a black woman
(We’ve come too far to right these wrongs)
‘Cus I’m a black woman
‘Cus I’m a black woman

Thanks!

Here’s the link to the part one of amazing songs that celebrate melanin

AMAZING SONGS THAT CELEBRATE MELANIN ( With Lyrics)

AMAZING SONGS THAT CELEBRATE MELANIN ( With Lyrics)

Nowadays, black women are beginning to own their melanin showing that their skin really is beautiful too. With a lot of modifications that are being made to suit the dark skin such as makeup products and body lotions, the music industry isn’t left behind. Thanks to a few artist, these are amazing songs that celebrate melanin to add to your play list. I hope these amazing songs inspire, motivate and activate you to celebrate melanin more. May these songs remind you just how beautiful melanin is and also, may it reveal the beauty lying within you.

1) Melanin by Ciara, Lupita, La La, Esther Dean, City girls

Ciara- Melanin

I started with this song because it was released just few days ago. The collaboration speaks of how black women need to unite in order to overcome. Did you know Lupita could singggg??? While we await the video release, as the song says, « we melanin chicks ‘bout to run the world» [Ciara:]That’s that chocolate, chocolate

[Ciara:]


That’s that chocolate, chocolate
That melanin
Ow!

[Ester Dean:]


(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) Yeah, we killin’ ’em
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) We be killin’ ’em
With all that chocolate, chocolate

[Ciara:]

CeCe’s my name (Uh), love is my game (Yup)
Blue and green’s my color, I stay reppin’ my team (Ooh-ooh)
My girls in every shade, mhm, we put that “S” in “slay”
I’m lifting up my queens, fixing crowns, that’s my thing
Uh, she cute as fuck, junk in that trunk
My sugar, cinnamon, yeah, girl, he love that melanin

[Ester Dean:]


(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) Yeah, we killin’ ’em
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) that’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) We be killin’ ’em
With all that chocolate, chocolate

[Ciara:]


My daddy call me princess (Uh)
Feel so royal when he rockin’ me (Uh)
Breaking my good foot, prop a knee (All night)
Uh, a hot, cold summer day
He drinking melanade
Them boys go loco, loco
Yeah, he love that chocolate
Uh, he cute as fuck
CeCe did good
He’s such a gentleman
Yeah, girl, I love that melanin

[Ester Dean:]


(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) Yeah, we killin’ ’em
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) We be killin’ ’em
With all that chocolate, chocolate

[Ciara:]


Hey, ladies (Yeah?), are you ready (Yeah?)
To hit (Yeah?) that melanin (Melanin)
Go Ester, go Lupita, go LaLa, go City Girls (Ow!)
Go Yolanda, go Sienna, go Veena, go Robin
Go Gabbie, go Jackie, go Jeniffer, go Kelly
Go down, go Erica
Good assist, you did that

[Ester Dean:]


(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) Yeah, we killin’ em
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) We be killin’ ’em
With all that chocolate, chocolate

[LA LA:]


Well, my name is LaLa
Stay so poppin’ and phantomy (Whoo, whoo)
Hustle all day, that’s a queen in me (Whoo, whoo)
I walk on the block like, “Damn, I’m heat!”
A Butter Rican bae, mami, mami, I get paid (Cha-ching!)
Your baby daddy’s fave, I’m that big drip, I’m the wave
She copper thin, she stackin’ thick (She bad)
Stay settin’ trends, yeah, girl, that’s that melanin

[Ester Dean:]
(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) Yeah, we killin’ em (Lupita, let’s go!)
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate

[Lupita Nyong’o:]


It’s Troublemaker back on the scene
Stay getting that green, Wu-Tang called it C.R.E.A.M.
I ride with the team, my hustle’s a dream
I’m Mexican born, but a Kenyan queen (Ayy, ayy)
Like Kipchoge, pushing the limits
One hour and fifty-nine minutes? (Mhm, mhm)
I keep it so classy, cover girl, you know I’m sassy (Okay)
My hue on dark chocolat’ (Chocolat’)
Movie deals, I get a lot (I get a lot)
Yeah, ’cause I’m a brown-skinned girl
These melanin chicks ’bout to run the whole world

[Ester Dean & J.T.:]
(Uh) That’s that melanin (Ow)
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) Yeah, we killin’ em (J.T.)
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate

[J.T.:]


I’m black girl magic
Skin like expensive fabric (Baye)
He like it better when I’m ratchet
I’m a boss-boss, chick’s still askin’ (So?)
Kitty power, kitty power, kitty power (Ho)
Gotta make ’em pay by the hour, ’til you broke
City Girl ish, gotta let the world know
I’m a bad chick with a lace or a ‘fro
She thick as fuck (Mhm), she bad as ish
I’m worldwide, and I’m a felanin’
Go CeCe, go LaLa, go Resha, go J.T
Go Maggie, go Cardi, go RiRi
Go Layton
C-I-T-Y wid it, city girl, I’m light wid it (Ow)
Brown skin, I’m fine wit’ it (Ayy)
Go Mary J. Blige wid it, ayy
Break it down, both sides wit’ it (Break it down)
Bring it up, spread the ground wit’ it (Spread the ground)
O-T, outta town wit’ it
Had to add a lil’ brown wit’ it

[Ester Dean:]


(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) Yeah, we killin’ ’em
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) That’s that melanin
Yeah, that’s that chocolate, chocolate
(Uh) We be killin’ ’em
With all that chocolate, chocolate

2) Melanin by Romain Virgo

Roman Virgo

Ayyyiii
Its the Melanin! Ouu yeah
I love you everything
Yeah yeah yeahDont you know that
Black don’t crackThere’s no need to be ashamed of your skin
They won’t tell you but its a fact
You got class, let it last
Keep it genuineYou must have got me
Got me in a trap
Cause everytime I keep coming back
Cause they dont got a thing on you
And they can glow just like you do
And I want the whole wide world to see
That you are beautiful to me
I love my chocolate skinYou are royal, you are queen
Dont you change that beauty within
Lift your head up, lift it with pride
And You dont have to worry
I’m always here by your sideYou must have got me
Got me in a trap
Cause everytime I keep coming back
Cause they dont get a thing on you
And they can glow just like you do
I want the whole wide world to see
That you are beautiful to me
I love my chocolate skin
You better love yourself don’t hate yourself embrace yourself my dear
Cause you look beautiful in every single thing you wear
Stay just the way you are
Don’t you change a thing
Woozess power in your melaninI know you got me
Got me in a trap
Cause everytime I keep coming back
Cause they dont get a thing on you
And they can glow just like you do
And I want the whole wide world to see
That you are beautiful to me
I love my chocolate skin
It’s the melanin uh huh ouu yeah
I love you everything yeah yeah yeah
It’s the melanin uh huh yeah
I love you everything you everything
Your everything

3) Melanin by Afro B

Afro B

Girl you bad
You be bad pass El Chapo
Mexico
Odo ye wu’eh

Jolie beautiful
You be bussing my brain
Ehhhhh nana eh

Give me your love your love your love
Give your love to me
Love to me
Cherie be my queen

See this your body oooo
Is worth more than my money
My money

Oh my mela mela mela
Oh my mela mela mela
Melanin

Oh you bella Bella Bella
Oh my mela mela mela
Melanin

My heart go
Pa pa ti pa pa
Ah ti pa pa
Oh mela mela mela
Mela mela mela

My heart go pa pa
Ti pa pa ooooo
Ti pa pa ooooo
Oh mela mela mela
Mela mela mela
Melanin

Them ah talk
Talk like they know us
Mmmmm
See this our love
See this our love
This kind of love can not be touched
Eeee
Ma Cherie coco

Pass me your loving
Pass me your loving
Pass me your loving
I give you am all night
I’ll make you feel almighty oooo
Give me your love
Give me your love eeeeee

Oh my mela mela mela
Oh my mela mela mela

Oh you bella Bella Bella
Oh you bella Bella Bella
Melanin

My heart go pa pa
Ti pa pa ooooo
Ti pa pa ooooo
Oh mela mela mela
Mela mela mela

My heart go pa pa
Ti pa pa ooooo
Ti pa pa ooooo
Oh mela mela mela
Mela mela mela
Melanin

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